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Kimberly Veautour Featured on Kids Sports Psychology Radio

May 2nd, 2011

Borrowed from Kidssportspsychology.com:

 

For a number of reasons, many sports kids don’t believe in themselves–and that’s bad news for them, their teams and their coaches.

Here are just a few causes: –>

They doubt their abilities –>

They’re perfectionists and expect too much –>

Their parents pressure them too much When kids don’t believe in themselves, they hurt their performance and enjoyment of sports.

Kymber Veautour, a Pop Warner cheer coach who has garnered two national wins, says this is the main problem that hurts her team members’ mental game. But she has lots of ideas for overcoming this challenge. “I continuously have to be an advocate for the children on my teams. For some reason they have blocks that lead them to failure. I tell them the only thing that’s stopping themselves is themselves.” One of the problems, says Veautour, is parents. They have a hard time striking that fine balance between pushing kids too hard and simply supporting them, she says. It’s a hard balance to achieve, she adds. “Strong involvement from parents can be detrimental,” she says. At the same time, parents need to be supportive. They can’t back off entirely. “You can see the effects on kids. They try so hard to please their parents. It affects everything they do.”

 

Here at Kids’ Sports Psychology, we agree with Veautour and believe that a number of other factors affect whether kids believe in themselves… Often, for whatever reason, kids embrace beliefs that cause them to doubt themselves. For example, they give themselves negative labels. “I’m not a good tumbler,” they say. Sometimes, external factors are the influence. One example is coaches who only focus on the negative.

Here’s the good news. Veautour–who after all, has garnered a few national championships–has some strategies for helping these kids. First of all, she tells kids to take it step by step. If they can conquer one step in cheering, they’re ready for the next. And the next… We call this focusing on the moment—not on outcomes like wins. Kids need to focus on what they need to do right now to get the job done. Second, Veautour uncovers labels. She tells kids they’re all cheerleaders—not bad tumblers or bad jumpers. She reminds them that they’re all good at something. Third, Veautour works one-on-one with kids who have had bad days. She doesn’t focus on the negatives, but reminds them that tomorrow is another day. “I tell them to go home, take a shower, relax and think about what they did. Take it one step at a time.” And fourth, we’d like to remind parents that kids need to understand they can’t be perfect every day. It’s okay for sports kids to have a bad day as long as they grow and learn from their mistakes—instead of beating themselves up. Want to learn more about how to be Ultimate Sports Parents and help your sports kids make the most of their physical talent? Here at Kids’ Sports Psychology, we can help you do just that.

 

KYMBERSTYLE friends, co-workers and family… no need to visit kids sports psychology to listen to the interview.

Coach Kymber on Youth Sports Radio

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Education VS Experience

April 29th, 2011

Once I started researching this topic I was amazed at how little information there was.  Most of the information I did find, was written by home-schoolers trying to justify their position.   Now, I do not necessarily disagree with home schooling, I have a very dear friend that home schools her children.  I do have concerns on the social growth of home schooled children, but that is not for me to worry about… it is for their home schooling parents/teachers.

I did find an enlightening article written by one home school advocate that actually breaks-down the economic benefits of home schooling.   It does in a very one sided, biased view offer a slight look into the salary of a non-college bound student.  For that it helps with my research. Mark writes a great article called Economics 101: College vs. Apprenticeship.  In this he states, “Let’s compare the costs and income for two different situations of your typical college age student – Mr. Worker works at an entry level job full time while Mr. Student attends university full time in the fall and spring while working at an entry level job for 3 months in the summer.”

He goes on to elaborate, “Mr. Worker is an apprentice in a trade and nets $10 an hour*, 40 hours a week, 50 weeks a year, so averages $20,000 income each year. Mr. Student makes $10 an hour, 40 hours a week, 12 to 13 weeks a year so averages $5,000 income each year.

Mr. Student’s parents pay an average $583 each month for 4 years for a total of $28,000 for his 4 years at the university. Mr. Worker’s parents contribute $583 month to a typical mutual fund account averaging an 8% annual return (8% is a low estimate of the average long term annual gain for a low risk U.S. mutual fund). At the end of the 4 years, the total value of these monthly payments is 0 for Mr. Student (the college has it all) and $33,000 for Mr. Worker (amount contributed each month plus interest).

Since Mr. Worker is living at home, he saves all his income in a typical mutual fund account averaging an 8% annual return. Saving $1666 a month for 4 years in the account results in a balance of $94,000. Mr. Student saves his 3 months of income each year (which is 1/4 of Mr. Worker’s) in an equivalent account with an 8% annual return, which results in a balance of $24,000. Note that in both cases the parents are paying all living expenses and they are assumed to be the same.

So at the end of 4 years, Mr. Student has a college degree and $24,000 in cash, while Mr. Worker has 4 years experience in his trade plus $127,000 in cash (his income plus his parent’s contribution). Both students move out of their parents’ home and begin their career using what they’ve learned in 4 years. They keep their cash in the investment accounts earning an average of 8% annually. Mr. Student has $103,000 less money than Mr. Worker. He must earn more than Mr. Worker does in order to catch up and surpass him. How much more and for how long?

The $103,000 growing at 8% annually grows to $229,000 in 10 years. If Mr. Student saves an extra $1,250 each month (in the 8% account), he will reach the $229,000 in 10 years. $1,250 monthly is $15,000 a year, so if Mr. Student’s after-tax salary exceeds Mr. Worker’s by 15,000 each year then Mr. Student is better off financially.  Note that Mr. Student will likely be in the 25% tax bracket, so he must earn $20,000 extra, before taxes, to net the $15,000 to save and invest.”

Read the entire article by clicking here.

Now though it does in some way, successfully breakdown the economics of the two students lives, it does not look long term.  While reading this I actually asked myself why someone would want to go to college.  If they just do as it is said here they would be fine, have money and a great retirement.  Then I ask, “What 18 year old lives at home banking every cent they have and reporting to mommy and daddy?”  What about later in life when they enter their 30′s and have a family to support?  How do they fair when someone fresh out of college is in line for the same job, and asking for less money?  Well, then…they end up unemployed.

Unless they find a manager that takes their experience into account.  I was always one of those managers.  I valued each person on what they could bring to the table, not how much education they had.  Coming from an era that valued the hard work involved to learn and work your way up to the top I too valued someone that was self taught, hard working and had a diverse background.  I found that they, at times, brought more to the table then the fresh new hire out of college with only one perspective.

I think that more people should take this into account before they hire.  In this job market employers are demanding higher education for less money, but lost in the shuffle are the over employable.  The ones that are told, “I am sorry but you are over qualified” ,  based not on their degree but their experience.

This is a resource that is under utilized in the job markets today…and quite frankly a reason why there is an issue with customer satisfaction.  Gone are the days of people caring about their jobs, taking pride in their work and working hard for their money.  The “old timers”  that have had to scrape their way to the top have learned of the pride associated with that hard work, and that in turn translated to their clients and client satisfaction.

My marketing advice for this month… find the untapped resource available to you, and set it free!  Show it the way to success and watch your company prosper.   Look at the why’s and not the how’s, this will bring you the greatest growth.

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Looking for new blog topics?

April 26th, 2011

I preach and preach and preach to all of my friends that have business website to blog at least weekly.   I personally think that to get first page rankings on the search engines you need to blog daily.  This is easier said than done.  Knowing some of the tips and tricks that we use ourselves just might help you.   The hardest part is finding a topic.  If you have a business site, you need for your blogs to be mostly business related.  If you have a personal site, you have much more flexibility.   Below is my list of “go to” topics:

  1. How should you use social media. ( this topic can be visited often and is ever changing.)
  2. Latest technology
  3. How women use social media, and the impact.
  4. New internet applications I have just found.
  5. Search Googles blog, and research the new applications and how they work.
  6. How to keep your blog fresh.
  7. How to drive traffic to your website.
  8. Youtube videos on your products or business.  ( This actually keeps things light, and fun when you have no idea what to write about.)
  9. Funny interactive programs like JibJab that make people want to come back.
  10. WordPress, and WordPress plugins that I love and why.
  11. Media topics that need more coverage.
  12. Blog posts versus pages.
  13. When is free better.  Do you really get what you pay for, or is open source the wave of the future.
  14. What challenges are my potential customers facing. Do I have any advice for them?
  15. How to built a community.
  16. How to get parents more involved with their children.
  17. Animal issues, topics and rescues.
  18. How to market your events.
  19. Proper marketing and branding.
  20. Marketing trends, and trends in social media.
  21. Write about your business. ( If you have a restaurant you MUST be posting your specials daily.) Such a small thing, with such HUGE returns. )
  22. How to effectively use visual aids.
  23. Post Photos
  24. Recommendations
  25. Best ways to use a business website to grow traffic.

I could go on, and on.  I hope this helps you.  Take the time, write a few and schedule them to post automatically.  That is the true tip of the day.

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